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Gio Takahashi
06-13-2008, 09:15
OCEANSIDE, Calif. - On a Monday morning last month, highway patrol officers visited 20 classrooms at El Camino High School to announce some horrible news: Several students had been killed in car wrecks over the weekend.

Classmates wept. Some became hysterical.

A few hours and many tears later, though, the pain turned to fury when the teenagers learned that it was all a hoax ? a scared-straight exercise designed by school officials to dramatize the consequences of drinking and driving.

As seniors prepare for graduation parties Friday, school officials in the largely prosperous San Diego suburb are defending themselves against allegations they went too far.

At school assemblies, some students held up posters that read: "Death is real. Don't play with our emotions."

'They got the shock they wanted'
Michelle de Gracia, 16, was in physics class when an officer announced that her missing classmate David, a popular basketball player, had died instantly after being rear-ended by a drunken driver. She said she felt nauseated but was too stunned to cry.

"They got the shock they wanted," she said.

Some of her classmates became extremely upset, prompting the teacher to tell them immediately it was all staged.

"People started yelling at the teacher," she said. "It was pretty hectic."

Others, including many who heard the news of the 26 deaths between classes, were left in the dark until the missing students reappeared hours later.

"You feel betrayed by your teachers and administrators, these people you trust," said 15-year-old Carolyn Magos. "But then I felt selfish for feeling that way, because, I mean, if it saves one life, it's worth it."

'We wanted them to be traumatized'
Officials at the 3,100-student school officials defended the program.

"They were traumatized, but we wanted them to be traumatized," said guidance counselor Lori Tauber, who helped organize the shocking exercise and got dozens of students to participate. "That's how they get the message."

The plan was to tell the truth to the students at an assembly later in the day. But word that it was all a hoax began to spread before the gathering. Tauber said some counselors and administrators revealed the truth to calm some students who had become upset.

Oceanside Schools Superintendent Larry Perondi said he fielded only a few calls from parents, while the PTA chapter said it had not heard any complaints. Perondi said the program would be revised, but he would not say how. And he said he was glad that students seemed to have gotten the message.

"We did this in earnest," he said. "This was not done to be a prankster."

Source
MSNBC (http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25123570/)

Charlie
06-13-2008, 10:13
Death IS real. I'll agree with that. And this is one time where I actually stand with the teens side of things. If someone came in and told me my mom died, or whatever, then told me they were joking after having me all worked up, I'd seriously bludgeon the fuck out of them until THEY died, probably. I still remember that feeling I got when my uncle died, and it's NOT one I want to experience again anytime soon. Especially at the expense of someone getting a quick laugh. Fuck them for doing this.

Gio Takahashi
06-13-2008, 10:18
I don't think they are doing this for a 'quick laugh' Charlie. I think the intention was to teach the students the danger behind Driving With Influence. The Danger is real, and over the years, tons of student die to DWI, or victim of someone DWI.

Charlie
06-13-2008, 10:53
Quick laugh, whatever. Why would you lie to somebody, and fuck with their heads like that, to teach them something they could know a LOT easier by just having the gift of common sense? Even a child should know it's wrong to drink and drive, by nature.

Gio Takahashi
06-13-2008, 11:09
Maybe, yet too many people still do it, and people will die from it. They do a scare tactics to deliver a powerful message to remind students just how bad it can be. Is it good of them to do it? No. Does it deliver a message? I sure as hell hope so.

SomaticCorpse
06-13-2008, 12:45
It's a useless tactic, though... Sure, it's weight is effective among teens in high school, but then they get to college, and all that gets thrown out the window.

You see, in college, kids don't hang around their parents so much, and they're able to make free decisions without considering consequence... This is where deaths from too much alcohol consumption become famous.

It seems like a good idea, but I don't think it's effective enough... I mean, I've seen a friend drive not even a block and almost die because of stupid shit like that.

DoomKitty
06-13-2008, 18:15
Quick laugh, whatever. Why would you lie to somebody, and fuck with their heads like that, to teach them something they could know a LOT easier by just having the gift of common sense? Even a child should know it's wrong to drink and drive, by nature.

Problem is, a lot of them DON'T have common sense, You never went to a high school or college with a bunch of people.

They did something like this at a school around here, except the students staged a drunken car crash outside the school, with cops and dead students and the works. It got kids pretty upset but you don't see them bitching about it.

It shows them what can and DOES happen when they're out drinking and being idiots. The shock value is enough to make some teens think about what they are doing, but it doesn't always work for everyone.

Gio Takahashi
06-13-2008, 18:53
I cannot agree anymore.

deathofcheese
06-13-2008, 19:00
That's pretty dick. I'm all for any reasonable method that will get people to stop drinking irresponsibly, but this is a little too far. My high school did a "ghost-out" where all the student government and several student body organizations wore black and every x minutes would stand up, interrupt class and say "I was just killed by a drunk driver."/"I was just killed in a drunk-driving accident." Then, they wouldn't say anythning for the rest of the day. It was kinda poignant, but easily ignorable.

Gio Takahashi
06-13-2008, 19:16
Wow, that's quite creepy in a way.

Killer_Man_
06-13-2008, 23:41
They did it at my school, I was the one who they called to the office via pass before my lunch hour and was told not to come back till the assembly. Mainly because I was one of those who was well known amongst my class mates but really wasn't 'popular' or had a lot of friends.

It shocked a lot of people of being killed by a drunk driver. Actually this program works cause a lot of the IDIOTS, who would get smash and drive stopped cause of the 'shock treatment.'

That and many teens think that they are young and invincible. You all know what I mean by that sentence.

Seegtease
06-14-2008, 04:44
It was kinda poignant, but easily ignorable.


That's the problem. If it's ignorable, nobody will take it seriously.

I think what they did was effective. It may have pissed off the kids, but they will have learned something deep down, even if they don't consciously think about it. They remember how hurt they were when they heard the news and they realize they never want to feel that way again, and will do what it takes to avoid it.

Sure, we all know we don't want our friends to die, it's nice to have close friend. But knowing how it hurts for it to happen will give us another reason to avoid it.