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RonDo
06-19-2008, 11:47
GLOUCESTER (WBZ) ― There's a stunning twist to the sudden rise in teen pregnancies at Gloucester High School. 17 students there are expecting and, according to a published report, most of them became that way on purpose.

Time Magazine (http://www.time.com/time/world/article/0,8599,1815845,00.html) is reporting that nearly half of the girls confessed to making a pact to get pregnant and raise their babies together. None of the girls is older than 16.

Principal Joseph Sullivan said that wasn't all that was shocking.

"We found out one of the fathers is a 24-year-old homeless guy," he told Time.

Last month, two top officials at the high school's health center resigned in a fight over contraceptives distribution.

Medical Director Dr. Brian Orr and chief nurse practitioner Kim Daly support confidentially giving contraceptives to students. They were outraged about resistance from Addison Gilbert Hospital, which administers the state public health grant that funds the school clinic.

Normally, the school has about four pregnancies per school year.

According to Time, school officials started looking into the spike in pregnancies after an unusual number of girls came to the school clinic for pregnancy tests. Some came by several times.

"Some girls seemed more upset when they weren't pregnant than when they were," Sullivan told the magazine.

The pregnant girls and their parents turned down requests to be interviewed.

A recent graduate who had a baby during her freshman year told Time she knows why the girls wanted to get pregnant.

"They're so excited to finally have someone to love them unconditionally," Amanda Ireland, 18, said. "I try to explain it's hard to feel loved when an infant is screaming to be fed at 3 a.m."

Source (http://wbztv.com/local/gloucester.high.school.2.751873.html)

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Hmm. Go so far as to be impregnated by a homeless person...

Gio Takahashi
06-19-2008, 11:49
I'm not so sure what to say to that. all I can say is I can hope that those girls can support their child and themselves.

Bloodcinder
06-19-2008, 12:00
People need to learn that babies are not the key to instant happiness with one's life. They also need to learn that the world could do with a decreased birthrate.

tjkitsune
06-19-2008, 12:53
Girls trying to mature faster than they really need to.. A constant blame on society for how sex is more open and seen on TV regulary.. They yern for that "one love" and get frustrated when they go from one relationship to another, and want to never be alone. Being a parent garentees you won't be alone, because then the baby is always dependant on you. They just don't realize how much hard work it really is.. I do have respect for women who get pregnant though with the knowledge that it won't be all fun and games and make such sacrifices in their lives. My girlfriend learned after having her baby how much of her life she's missing being a parent. She just turned 22, and for her 21st birthday, she missed out going to the bar with friends and having fun. She can no longer just leave and go out when she wants. Big responsibility.

deathofcheese
06-19-2008, 19:48
Let's see how much they appreciate "being loved" when they can't go to college (assuming they make it through high school) because they have to get a job to support raising their baby, and then can't get a great-paying job because they lack the education. Or if their "being loved" lasts through a bad home life because the baby is suddenly the center of their life and they can't do anything (like having a baby stops most people) that people their age normally go out and do.

Seegtease
06-19-2008, 21:15
If they could all handle children and raise them well, I wouldn't be bothered, but it's pretty obvious that's not the case. Sadly, I know some will end up being put up for adoption because they will realize they cannot handle the endeavor.

Gio Takahashi
06-20-2008, 00:15
Indeed. I can only hope that the parents will assist them on this. I wonder where and how they stand on this issue, especially with their daughter being knocked up by a friggin bum.

Bloodcinder
06-20-2008, 00:18
I don't think it's sad that they'll get put up for adoption. A lot of people want kids without wanting to or having the ability to make them the dirty way.

Gio Takahashi
06-20-2008, 00:26
I don't know the actual statistics, I haven't looked it up, biut I'm pretty sure that the number of children already up for adoption outweighs the demand from foster parents.

Bloodcinder
06-20-2008, 00:42
That's because of problematic adoption laws that prohibit certain classes of decent people from adopting... But I guess I won't go there. Yes, you are right.

Detrevni
06-20-2008, 04:50
Lol stupid girls.

DoomKitty
06-20-2008, 05:04
Idiots, rushing into things they're not ready for. They have so much more life ahead of them to raise kids. Enjoy your youth and do what you want to do with your life while you can. I'm 20 and I don't have the maturity and funds to raise a child. They definately don't. Why are teenagers so stupid.

Gio Takahashi
06-20-2008, 09:19
Lame Duo, really lame. Thank God for that nonetheless.

Charlie
06-20-2008, 18:21
I'm 19 (20 next month), and I can say with 100% assurance in my own self that it's gonna be AT LEAST another 10 - 15 years before I'm ready to raise a kid in any way, shape, or form. Unless by some kind of miracle I somehow come into enough money to get by, a big enough house, meet my future wife (who needs to be like-minded on the kid situation as well), and we get married. Before ALL of that comes into play, kids are out of the question.

I'm not gonna end up like a couple of my friends ended up, or other people I know/have met (one had a kid at 16, and was pregnant a second time the last I heard from her, and one's just about to have her first kid), and end up taking care of them on next to nothing, throwing a good 18 years of my life away on them, and depriving them of a REAL life. It wouldn't be right, in any way what-so-ever.

So, putting it all in short, they're idiots. And if they have any common sense about them, or dignity for themselves, they'll change their minds.

Seegtease
06-20-2008, 20:54
That's because of problematic adoption laws that prohibit certain classes of decent people from adopting... But I guess I won't go there. Yes, you are right.

No, please do go there. It deserve a rant or two.

Funny how the Gov't will regulate who can adopt kids, but won't regulate who will have kids. All this does it put infertile people at a disadvantage for something they cannot help.

It's not necessary to be so strict, can they feed, take care of kid, and pay the bills? That's about all they need to know, and shouldn't make assumptions. A hobo off the street, obviously not.

You should make a thread about it.

Bloodcinder
06-20-2008, 20:59
I was referring to gay couples, and I don't particularly want to make a thread on that.

Seegtease
06-20-2008, 21:04
I know you were, and I know that's a lot more extreme than my examples, but it's still way too hard even in general.

Detrevni
06-23-2008, 16:48
Of course this happened in Massachusetts. THEM PEOPLES ARE CRAZY